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CONNECTING THROUGH KINDNESS: MICHAEL ZERVOS’ GLOBAL ADVENTURE

 “It’s really just a publicity thing,” says Michael Zervos, a man who’s currently on course to set the Guinness World Record for the fewest number of days needed to visit every country in the world. But as he told me, that’s just to bring eyes onto his real mission: to hear the happiest moments from the lives of people in every country in the world and to share them on social media, to help remind us we are all connected, if not by parentage, then by aspirations. Dubbed Project Kosmos, he has more or less reached the halfway point of his journey, having already passed through 100 countries in under a year. Barring a few pariahs, his passport has been stamped in all of Asia, Oceania, Africa, and some parts of Europe. His brilliantly shot videos are arrayed very cleverly on his Instagram. Areej, in Jordan, recalled the moment she bought her first bike and learned how to ride it—after she turned 30. Sam, in Brunei, said it was the day she arrived at her tram stop, and a homeless man whom she had treated to a hot chocolate days before, was waiting there for her with a hot chocolate in return. They’re curated and produced by Zervos who all the while is traveling at a breakneck pace across the face of the Earth. “Amazingly, I’m still on schedule,” Zervos, a dual citizen of the US and Greece, told me in May during a stopover in Cyprus. “I had to make several adjustments about 30 countries in, and my intention wasn’t to come back to Greece at this time. But still, I visited all the countries I expected to go to save for a couple I had to kick down the line, like North Korea which still hasn’t opened.” “I’m amazed I’m on schedule,” he admitted. “Occasionally it means maybe spending a day less in a certain place but I’ve tried to make the most out of those situations.” If you couldn’t tell by the hair, Zervos was already an avid globe trekker before he concocted the idea for his “record-breaking journey of happiness,” but also a self-described fan of logistics and planning, having worked in documentary filmmaking before embarking on his trip. Knowing that he only had a few days in each nation, he spent much of the planning phase seeking out personalities and “fixers,” as Anthony Bourdain would call them. Finding them through social media, he’d open a dialogue and see if they could give him a crash course on what it means to be happy in the Democratic Rep. of the Congo, Mongolia, Burundi, etc. The world over, the emotion of happiness does remind us of our shared humanity and kindness somehow happens to be the portal through which happiness could be easily accessed. You’d never know how much happiness that little act of kindness would bring to the life of another. Credit: World at Large.

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Holiday Cheer: An Impromptu Saxophone Performance Brings Joy During Flight Delay

With frustrating delays on the tarmac during holiday travel at one of the busiest airports in the world, one might expect only cranky people to make the news. But on flight 1238, stuck in Atlanta, Georgia, some unexpected holiday cheer broke out—and everyone joined in for the chorus. Passengers aboard the packed Delta Airlines flight had already been waiting for well over an hour to depart, when they were given more bad news—the replacement flight crew was stuck in traffic. The beleaguered flight attendants were trying their best to keep people comfortable and calm on the plane, but the travelers were hot, tired, and cramped in like sardines. Kate Dailey could “feel the tension rising in the air,” but then something magical happened. A man stood up and began assembling his saxophone. Soon, he started playing Christmas Carols wandering up and down the aisle. The mood on the plane was immediately elevated although the aircraft was still on the ground. “I was surprised and delighted,” Kate told GNN. “People were clapping, singing along, and cheering this man for his playing. The sax player was Wayne Hoey, who served in the U.S. Army band for 20 years, performing and traveling the world during the Vietnam War in order to boost troop morale—and that’s what was needed yesterday during the long delay. “It was such a lovely thing to witness, and such a gift to everyone during a stressful travel time.” He even played Baby Shark for the kids, and made everyone laugh with his teasing horn. “He played really well—and everything from memory!” Kate reported. After retiring from the Army, Mr. Hoey got his masters in music education and taught a middle school band in Colorado Springs. Today he lives in Augusta, Georgia, serving as a substitute music teacher, and jamming for audiences with his Wayne Hoey Big Band. He’s known for telling students, ‘Always bring your sax,’ exactly so they could have the opportunity he had on his flight to Augusta last night—to entertain and delight. An impromptu kindness from strangers is a living example of the holiday spirit, and Wayne is a shining star.

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BAKERY OWNER DISCOVERS HER LONGTIME CUSTOMER IS HER BIOLOGICAL SON

From Chicago comes the story of a sweet reunion between a mother and son, who despite having met many times, never knew of their relationship. At Give Me Some Sugah bakery, recently-hired employee Hunter Varmarr is particularly proud of his pound cake. He had always loved stopping in for a sweet treat or breakfast at the cafe, particularly because of the service from the baker behind the counter. Her name was Lenore Lindsey, and though he didn’t know Varmarr’s name, he knew him as a valuable customer. But their relationship went far deeper than that. Though neither knew it, they were mother and son. Lindsey gave up her newborn son for adoption when she gave birth to Varmarr at just 17 years old. Varmarr for his part didn’t know he was adopted until 34. After finding out, he gradually became interested in finding out who his birth mother was, and so submitted DNA for a test. One day, he received a strange call. “I was on the phone talking to my friend when a call came through from the bakery,” said Varmarr to the Washington Post. “I was like, ‘Why is Give Me Some Sugah calling me?’” Even though he was told to expect a call from his biological mother, he didn’t suspect even for a moment any connection between it and the bakery. The Post heard from Lindsey, who said if she had seen Varmarr’s photo, the shock would have been immediate. Instead, with only a name, the call began with a slow awkwardness that eventually shattered with loud enthusiasm when the lost family members connected the dots. “When I knew who he was, we just started screaming on the phone,” Lindsey said. “We were beside ourselves,” with Hunter adding “It was just so unbelievable.” “When I called him, that connection was so immediate. I can’t even explain it. It was just like everything in my heart just broke open,” she said, this time to ABC 7 Chicago. After a bout of health issues, Varmarr even started working there while Lindsey recovered, having no prior baking experience. “It’s been a great experience. It further strengthens my faith. You can’t make up for time and days gone by. What you can do is properly utilize the time that you have,” he said. Along with Lindsey, Varmarr got to meet a long-lost sister, and an extended family to boot, incorporating his own four children into a new network of sweet, sweet, affection.

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LESSONS IN EMPATHY AND ACTION

At the renowned Naira Victor Kitchen in Makurdi, an incident unfolded that left many astonished. A customer entered the restaurant, eager to satisfy his hunger, and placed an order. However, upon receiving his meal, he called over the restaurant’s owner, expressing his preference for hotter food. Victor Tartenger, the master chef behind Naira Victor Kitchen, explained that he was experiencing issues with his microwave that day, which resulted in the meal not being served at the desired temperature. He assured the customer that he would resolve the problem promptly to enhance service. Days later, a surprise package arrived at Naira Victor Kitchen. Upon opening it, they discovered a brand-new microwave oven sent by Engr Iko Benjamin, the very customer who had previously complained about his meal’s temperature. This story carries a powerful message: when you find yourself in a position to improve a situation, take action. Let this inspire us not only to speak kindly but also to align our actions with the kindness we advocate.

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NEWSLETTER OCTOBER 2024

Warm greetings from the TALK desk! We trust that the past month did treat you kindly. Despite any challenges, the Universe has consistently surrounded you with supportive individuals, guiding you along the way. We appreciate your journey and hope that these connections have enriched your experiences. Remember, every step is a part of your unique story, and we are here to celebrate it with you. Thank you for being an integral part of our community! The revival of top engagers recognition ignited a wave of enthusiasm, especially when the number of beneficiaries was expanded to 50. This gesture serves as both appreciation and encouragement, inspiring community members to embrace kindness and support one another. The list of the 50 Top Engagers can be seen below.The revival of top engagers recognition ignited a wave of enthusiasm, especially when the number of beneficiaries was expanded to 50. This gesture serves as both appreciation and encouragement, inspiring community members to embrace kindness and support one another. The list of the 50 Top Engagers can be seen below. Ogor Alaje, Vera Erdoo, Marcos Mimi, DeGame Terngu Solomon, Torhile Joseph Zever, Pretty Solo Dzuah, Ess Yhuu Gee, Aondosoo Ayua, Love Joe, Terhile Akumba Ibiem, Gift Odiwanor, Chembe Alice, Sõn Tèr, Francisca Obeya Jonah, Kas Believe, Sammy Ayagwa, Sandra Erdoo Tsetim, Dooshima Asongu, Takor Godwin Aondohemba, Sonny Egwu, Helina Akoso Mbalaha, Pretty Pesh, Daniel Terzungwe Tyavmbi, Adogon Clara, Gracefield Ijeoma, Ella Mfena, Beatrice Orngu, Oloruntoba Eunice Modupe, Kabeer Ameer, Patricia Asenge, Deevyne Chioma, Tessy Agoziem, Odeh Uka Anathoth, Fortune Beign, Abdulafeez Alimi Akin, Benedicta Mngueshima Vershima, Awunah Theresa, Smart Jor, Abel Daniel, Josephine James Anyam, Terdoo Aernyi, Cornelius Ishar, Chikamso Elom Udu, Gracerita Utenger, Chris Sandy, Zaana Mary Buruku Sochima Miracle Achir Jennifer Terhide, a dedicated member of the community and the first TALK personality, marked her one-year wedding anniversary by sponsoring an airtime giveaway for 15 community members. This initiative aimed to promote generosity and kindness within the community.Achir Jennifer Terhide, a dedicated member of the community and the first TALK personality, marked her one-year wedding anniversary by sponsoring an airtime giveaway for 15 community members. This initiative aimed to promote generosity and kindness within the community. GED’S NUGGETS Many people believe that every effort or commitment should result in financial gain. Some even think that loyalty must lead to material rewards. While this mindset is widespread, it is fundamentally flawed. Many of the most valuable efforts and commitments contribute to personal growth in ways that money cannot. An obsession with financial gain can hinder the development of virtues, character, skills, insights, and relationships that ultimately enable one to create real value and earn money. True growth begins when we stop tying material expectations to our commitments. Poverty isn’t the absence of money; it is the absence of value. Be intentional about value creation. -M. Vingil Keep a date with us as we always put in the very best to ensure your stay here is fruitful. Do have a blessed month ahead.

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PAYING IT FORWARD: GEORGE SMITH’S LEGACY OF GENEROSITY AND EDUCATION

George Smith, a distinguished emeritus professor of biology at the University of Missouri, has made headlines not just for winning the 2018 Nobel Prize in Chemistry but for his remarkable decision to donate his entire $250,000 prize to benefit students. This generous act aims to establish the Missouri Nobel Scholarship Fund, specifically designed for students within the College of Arts and Sciences at his university. In a recent community event, Smith shared his thoughts on the significance of education, stating, “This might surprise some people, but my first degree was actually a bachelor of arts, not a bachelor of science. My liberal arts education was the springboard for a lifetime of learning and cultural engagement. My wife and I hope that supporting the liberal arts as a whole will enrich the lives of future MU students, whatever careers they choose.” His commitment to fostering a rich educational environment reflects his belief in the transformative power of education. In appreciative recognition of Smith’s generosity, the University of Missouri committed an additional $300,000 to the scholarship fund. Chancellor Alexander N. Cartwright announced a new tradition whereby the university will donate $100,000 for every faculty member who wins a Nobel Prize, with Smith being the inaugural recipient of this initiative. Cartwright expressed admiration for Smith’s humility and generosity, emphasizing how such contributions enable more students to experience world-class education at MU. Smith’s Nobel Prize was awarded for his pioneering work in phage display, a groundbreaking technique that allows researchers to screen and harvest molecules for targeting bacteria. This innovative method has had far-reaching implications in laboratories around the globe and has facilitated advancements in medical treatments, including therapies for rheumatoid arthritis and cancer. Despite his monumental achievements, Smith remains grounded. After returning from the Nobel ceremony in Sweden, he humorously noted that having a designated space on the campus bike rack—since he bikes to work daily—was more rewarding than receiving the substantial prize money. Through his scholarship fund and continued dedication to education, George Smith exemplifies how one can leverage personal success to create opportunities for future generations. His actions honor his own educational journey and also inspire countless students to pursue their dreams with the support they need to succeed.

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EMPATHY: THE HEART OF WISDOM ACROSS CULTURES

Across diverse cultures and nations, the perception of wisdom is increasingly recognized as intertwined with empathy. A recent study explored how individuals across 16 distinct cultures—from Japan to Morocco—view wisdom not merely as a function of logic or reflection, but as a profound understanding of others’ feelings and perspectives. Wisdom, often revered as a quintessential human trait, transcends mere intelligence or accumulated knowledge. It is characterized by the emotional resonance it evokes, suggesting that true wisdom is deeply rooted in empathy. Researchers from the University of Waterloo sought to create a comprehensive framework for wise behavior and character by examining perceptions of wisdom in 12 countries across five continents. The findings reveal that individuals deemed wise are often assessed based on two critical dimensions: reflective orientation and socio-emotional awareness. Reflective orientation encompasses logical thinking, emotional regulation, and the application of knowledge. In contrast, socio-emotional awareness emphasizes care for others’ feelings and attentiveness to social contexts. Dr. Maksim Rudnev, the study’s lead author, noted that these dimensions emerged consistently across all cultural regions studied, highlighting a universal framework for understanding wisdom. While reflective orientation is often regarded as more significant in defining wisdom, the study underscores that socio-emotional awareness is equally vital. Dr. Igor Grossmann pointed out that without the ability to reflect logically, even those who are socio-emotionally competent may not be perceived as wise. This suggests that empathy is not just an ancillary trait but a fundamental component of wisdom itself. The collaboration involved 2,707 participants from various socio-economic backgrounds who evaluated individuals—including scientists and politicians—faced with complex decisions lacking clear right or wrong answers. Participants rated both themselves and these exemplars of wisdom, revealing an interesting dynamic: individuals often viewed themselves as less reflective than those they considered wise but felt more confident about their socio-emotional skills. Understanding how wisdom is perceived globally has profound implications for leadership and education. It emphasizes the necessity of integrating empathy into our definitions of wisdom. As societies grapple with complex challenges, recognizing that true wisdom encompasses not only cognitive abilities but also a deep emotional connection to others may foster more effective leadership and collaborative solutions. In conclusion, this study illuminates empathy as an essential pillar of wisdom. As we navigate increasingly interconnected societies, cultivating empathy can enhance our understanding of others and ultimately lead to wiser decision-making and more compassionate communities.

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WHEN TECHNOLOGY MEETS HUMANITY: A TALE OF AI INTERVENTION AND KINDNESS

Today, discussions around mental health and platforms like Facebook often carry a negative connotation. However, a recent incident in Lucknow, India, highlights a more positive aspect of technology’s role in mental health intervention. An AI system developed by Meta alerted local authorities about a young woman in distress, potentially saving her life. The 23-year-old woman was reportedly heartbroken over her husband’s abandonment and posted a video on Facebook that resembled a suicide note, with a noose ominously visible. As the video gained traction online, Meta’s AI flagged her post and sent an alert to the Social Media Center of the Lucknow Police, providing them with her approximate location. Police officer swiftly responded and managed to engage the woman in conversation, ultimately persuading her to remove the noose. Although she declined protective custody, the police have maintained contact with her to ensure her safety. This situation underscores the dual nature of AI as both a tool for intervention and a reminder of the human emotions it interacts with. While companies like Meta and others develop AI systems to monitor social media for signs of suicidal intent—flagging hundreds of posts daily—it’s crucial to remember that these technologies are only as effective as the empathy and kindness we embed within their frameworks. AI’s potential for positive outcomes is significant; however, it is essential to approach its use with a foundation of kindness. For instance, AI systems that engage users with compassionate messages have shown promising results. Companies like Samurai Labs send supportive messages to individuals flagged for suicidal thoughts, offering resources and encouragement. Research indicates that kindness not only enhances AI performance but also fosters better human-AI interactions. Incorporating kindness into our interactions with technology can lead to improved outcomes across various applications. Studies have demonstrated that polite communication with AI can yield better responses and foster more productive engagements. This principle extends beyond mere efficiency; it speaks to the core of our humanity. As we navigate an increasingly digital landscape, embracing kindness is paramount—not just towards each other but also towards the tools we create. The absence of kindness can push individuals to their limits, emphasizing the need for compassion in all aspects of life. The story from Lucknow serves as a poignant reminder: while AI can be a powerful ally in addressing mental health crises, it is ultimately our commitment to kindness that will foster healing and connection in our communities.

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QUICK THINKING SAVES ELDERLY WOMAN FROM CREEK

A 77-year-old woman was saved from a precarious situation earlier this week, thanks to a man aptly named Chris Miracle. Chris, who works for his family’s towing business in Manntown, Florida, was on duty around 2 AM when he spotted flashing lights through the brush while driving. Initially focused on avoiding deer, he felt compelled to turn around after driving a mile past the lights, sensing something was amiss. Upon returning, Miracle discovered a car partially submerged in a creek about 40 yards from the road, with its hazard lights flashing. Inside, he found the elderly woman, who explained that she had veered off the road due to an adverse reaction to her medication. Without a cell phone to call for help, she had turned on her hazard lights and waited for assistance. Miracle promptly called emergency services and used his tow truck to pull her vehicle from the creek. Fortunately, she was released from the hospital days later in good condition. Miracle expressed relief that he followed his instincts; had no one noticed her hazard lights, she might have remained trapped until daylight, making rescue even more difficult. “The timing was just impeccable,” Miracle remarked. “I think it was God’s work—right place, right time; it was meant to be.”

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