kindness

When humanity calls, may we place political ideologies on hold, suspend social status and interact as human with another human. A group of good Samaritans and highway rescue personnel united to save a 71-year-old man trapped and unconscious in a burning car on I-94 in Minnesota. The incident began when Sam Orbovich lost consciousness while driving his Honda, which subsequently drifted off the road and collided with a light pole and guardrail, igniting a fire. A multitude of good spirited individuals swiftly gravitated towards the burning vehicle with one sole aim, to get the occupant out before more worsening eventualities would creep in. Though it was a herculean and dangerous task, humanity sure prevailed. When Orbovich regained consciousness, he found that a Highway Helper had shattered the glass of his vehicle. “I am alive today because several good Samaritans and professional first responders saved my life,” he stated after the harrowing Thursday night event. He expressed admiration for the bravery of those who risked their safety to rescue a stranger from a potentially explosive situation. Orbovich’s experience is one of the many incidences which show the extraordinary willingness of individuals to help others in distress, demonstrating a deep sense of community and heroism among strangers. For kindness to be highly effective especially in moments of crises and emergencies, it is just proper that we respond kindly now and get explanations later. The actions of those who pulled this motorist from the burning car demonstrate the importance and willingness of people out there looking out for each other.

Ken Jeffries, a 57-year-old man, experienced a heart attack while waiting for his flight at Charlotte Douglas International Airport. He collapsed on the airport floor, but fortune was on his side as his flight was headed to Knoxville, where Claire Cerbie, a registered nurse from a heart and vascular hospital in Charlotte, was also traveling. Cerbie noticed Jeffries’ unusual breathing and snoring, which prompted her to check on him. Realizing he was in distress, she quickly initiated CPR with the help of bystanders while someone fetched a defibrillator. “We put the pads on him,” Cerbie recounted, “It indicated a shock-able rhythm, and it shocked him in between while we were doing compressions.” After regaining his pulse, Jeffries was rushed to Atrium Health Carolinas Medical Center, where Dr. William Downey, a cardiologist at the Sanger Heart & Vascular Institute, performed emergency surgery. Both Cerbie and Dr. Downey emphasized that without the immediate CPR and defibrillation, Jeffries likely would not have survived. In a television interview, Jeffries expressed his gratitude to Cerbie, stating, “A ‘thank you’ is not enough, Claire. Thank you for what you did; I am so appreciative and indebted to you.” Cerbie responded with humility, saying she would do it again in a heartbeat. As recognition for her heroic actions, American Airlines upgraded Cerbie to first class for her flight to Knoxville. Emergencies can occur unexpectedly, and it is only naturally proper for our compassion to come to the forefront in these moments, allowing us to make a difference and help those in need, the best way our strengths carry us.

A woman who faced only a 15 percent chance of conceiving naturally was able to give birth to a child, thanks to the generosity of strangers who donated $13,000 for her to undergo IVF. Gem Baker had always dreamed of becoming a mother, but her journey was fraught with challenges. At 38, she was diagnosed with endometriosis in 2017, greatly reducing her chances of conception. After enduring eight procedures to remove the endometriosis, she learnt from her fertility clinic that her low egg count left her with just a 15 percent chance of conceiving. Determined to pursue her dream, she began exploring in vitro fertilization (IVF) but was shocked by the high costs involved, as it goes without saying, that IVF is an expensive medical procedure. Encouraged by her friend Jen, Gem set up a fundraising page, reluctantly though. To her astonishment, donations began pouring in, showcasing the kindness of those who wanted to help her. Adding up contributions from her dad and her own savings, Gem raised a total of $13,000. In August 2021, she finally began her first round of IVF. While it wasn’t a very smooth ride for Gem, the kindness of good people around her gave her the needed strength to keep placing one foot in front of the other. Months later, Gem welcomed her daughter, Clover-Iris, into the world. Sometimes, the purest form of kindness is tendered by people we scarcely know. In a world where challenges can often feel insurmountable, the selfless acts of these benefactors brought hope and joy to Gem and her new family. May this inspire us today to act kindly where we can and make a difference in someone’s life.

When Australian teacher Bri Dredge won $20,000 on the game show Millionaire Hot Seat, she could have easily used the money for personal luxuries or to treat her family. However, Dredge’s priorities lay with her students, and she made the selfless decision to spend the entire prize on a thoughtful gift for each of them. Recognizing the importance of sturdy footwear during the winter months, Dredge chose to buy every student at her school a brand-new pair of leather shoes. This act of generosity not only provided practical support for her pupils but also conveyed a strong message of the depth of Dredge’s compassion and dedication as an educator. The children were deeply moved by their teacher’s kindness, expressing gratitude for her thoughtful gesture. Dredge’s selfless act serves as a reminder of the impact that teachers can have on the lives of their students, going above and beyond the call of duty to ensure their well-being. In a world where personal interest often takes precedence, Dredge’s story stands tall as a shining example of the power of altruism and compassion. By prioritizing the needs of her students over her own and taking into cognizance the overall well-being of her students, she has both improved their lives and also inspired others to always look beyond just self, but always put the interests of those they serve before their own. True leadership and compassion should not be measured by personal gain but by the positive change we bring to the lives of others. Through small acts of kindness and selflessness, we can create a wonderful world that transforms communities and inspire a more habitable Earth. Be inspired to TRY A LITTLE KINDNESS.

Special educators are among the best, their commitment and skill unmatched. They tirelessly support students with diverse needs, making a lasting difference. Their compassion and expertise shine brightly, fostering growth and empowerment. They are indeed the finest, embodying the essence of excellence in education. Teaching means being there for students throughout their learning journey, shaping young minds requires a unique person. It’s a commitment to nurturing and guiding students to success. In Ana Bárbara Ferreira’s classroom, a little girl faced teasing for her distinct hair buns, her signature style. Upset by her classmates’ disapproval, she confided in Ferreira, her teacher. In a heartwarming display of empathy, Ferreira decided to wear the same hairstyle the next day. When the girl noticed, she was filled with joy and approached Ferreira, expressing, “Today, I’m as lovely as you are.” Ferreira was deeply touched by the positive impact of her gesture, realizing the significance of acceptance and solidarity. This simple act of mirroring the girl’s hairstyle boosted her self-esteem as well as fostered a sense of belonging and understanding in the classroom. By recognizing the student’s struggle with confidence and taking the time to connect with them on such a personal level, Ferreira was able to create a moment of understanding, support and also instill kindness into her learners. Little things truly count, if they’re done out of genuine kindness.

Pam and Gary Willis, a couple in their 50s from California, were foster parents who had raised five children of their own. As they approached retirement, they never imagined they would end up adopting seven siblings who had lost their parents in a tragic car accident. In 2018, the Willis family saw a news story about seven siblings, aged 2 to 13, who had survived a horrific crash that claimed their parents’ lives. The children were in foster care and desperately needed a permanent home. Pam was instantly drawn to their story and knew they needed to stay together. To her surprise, when she voiced it out to her husband Gary, he was on the same page with her. Despite thousands of people calling to adopt the siblings, the Willis family stepped up to give them a forever home. Pam and Gary knew it wouldn’t be easy, as the children had suffered major injuries in the crash and faced significant trauma from their previous living situation, which included their parents’ addiction and homelessness. The kids initially struggled to trust the couple, with one, 7-year-old girl checking on them at night to make sure they were still there. Over the next few months, the children overcame obstacles and adjusted to their new lives. Finally, in August 2020, after delays due to the COVID-19 pandemic, Pam and Gary officially adopted all seven siblings. Two years later, the family’s life has been completely transformed. Pam reflects, “They have given us a second chance at parenting; we have given them a second Mom and Dad. They are our Second Chance 7.” Life has a way of throwing unexpected challenges our way, testing the limits of our strength and resilience. Whether it’s a personal setback, a global crisis, or a series of obstacles that seem to pile up, the reality is that difficulties are an inevitable part of the human existence. However, it is in these moments of adversity that our true character shines through. When faced with daunting challenges, it is our ability to remain resolute and extend kindness to ourselves and others that can make us humans that are humane.

A kind FedEx driver took a few minutes out of his day to help shovel the porch and sidewalk of a mom of three who had recently lost her husband. The driver, Brian Scholl, was out delivering packages when a woman walked up to him and asked if he could help her with a tire on her car. The woman, Leigh Anne Skoda, was trying to put air in her tires following a snowstorm but was unable to get the cap off of one of her tires, so she asked for help. Brian said sure and walked over and helped her with her tire. The two talked for a few minutes, and Brian learned that Leigh Anne had recently lost her husband, and she was now raising their three children on her own. Brian’s heart was moved by her situation, so after he’d helped her with her tires and she went back inside, he walked over to the front yard and shoveled the snow off of her porch and sidewalk. Leigh Anne had already gone inside, but she later checked her front door camera and found that Brian had shoveled her sidewalk before going back to work. “The first thought that came to my mind when I saw Brian scooping my porch and sidewalks was, God bless him. He is such a genuinely kind person, and I know it was no big deal to him, but it really meant the world to me!” Leigh Anne said. Truth be told, no act of kindness is too small. Hold the door open for the person behind you. Give a wave to show your appreciation to the driver waiting for you as you cross that busy street. Smile at someone who walks past you. Even the smallest kind gesture can brighten someone’s entire day, so don’t hold back on being kind.

It’s deeply touching to see how Michael Che honored his grandmother by relieving the stress of more than one hundred of her neighbors. His example shows that the combo of kindness and human compassion is truly stronger than any situation we may face. After losing his grandmother to the pandemic, SNL star Michael Che decided to pay one month’s rent for all 160 of her neighbors in a New York City Public Housing building. Michael’s heart went out to her neighbors who are battling the virus while also carrying the stress of having to pay rent when many are unable to work. “It’s crazy to me that residents of public housing are still expected to pay their rent when so many New Yorkers can’t even work,” he said. “Obviously I can’t offer much help by myself, but in the spirit and memory of my late grandmother, I’m paying one month’s rent for all 160 apartments in the NYCHA building she lived in.” While this was quite a monumental act of kindness and charity to honor his beloved late grandmother, Michael Che has remained humble and just wishes that everyone does more to help the average persons with their living expenses during the pandemic. “I know that’s just a drop in the bucket,” he humbly said. “So I really hope the city has a better plan for debt forgiveness for all the people in public housing, AT THE VERY LEAST.” When the heart is kind, it doesn’t matter if we’re celebrating or mourning, it’s not of import if we have it all or not. The most important thing is if the next person is ok within the very means our capabilities can reach.

At a stoplight in Washington, a truly glorious event was captured on someone’s cam. On the side of the road, a couple was struggling with an elderly person in a wheelchair, who was trying to stay dry by using a newspaper as a makeshift cover. The kind man walked across the street, handed them his umbrella, and then returned to his vehicle and drove away. With a mix of joy and gratitude, the couple opened the umbrella and held it over the elderly person, providing much-needed shelter from the rain. Extending a hand of kindness to those in need not only brings a smile to someone else’s face but can also broaden our perspective on the world. Through acts of kindness, we may become a source of strength for others while developing greater human sensitivity. Let’s stay kind in all situations.

A compassionate cashier decided to help a family struggling with their grocery bill by using her own card to cover half of their expenses. Ashley Jordan, from Columbia, South Carolina, was shopping with her husband and youngest child. Grocery trips were often a challenge for their family of five, as they relied solely on her husband’s income. Ashley described how most of his paycheck went towards food, making these trips particularly daunting. On this day, they visited the Walmart on Garners Ferry Road, accompanied by their one-year-old daughter, who was tired and crying in the checkout line. Their cashier, Sharnique Dasant, engaged them with friendly conversation while scanning their items. She remarked on the size of their grocery haul. As Ashley counted out her money, Sharnique smiled and said, “You guys look like you need a blessing tonight.” After briefly stepping away to the customer service counter, she returned to her register and quietly entered something on the keypad. To Ashley’s astonishment, Sharnique had used her own card to pay $100 towards their grocery bill. Overwhelmed, Ashley and her husband exchanged stunned glances, unable to believe the kindness they had just received. It was damn too good to be true, but none of them could alter the sweet reality that unfolded right before their eyes. Once in their car, the couple felt a weight lift as they realized that their grocery trip had turned into a moment of hope. “At that moment, we both knew things were going to be okay because there truly are good people out there,” Ashley reflected. One may be tempted to think the world is full of selfish people, well, while we may not have the statistical backing to accept or reject such claim. We know with absolute certainty, there are kind people everywhere and if by chance you don’t find any, then that in itself is a call for you to be that sweet KIND ANGEL.