kindness

Years ago, professional children’s performer Red Grammer faced a heartbreaking moment when his cherished Martin M-36 guitar was stolen from a baggage terminal after a delayed flight to LAX. Despite the passage of time, he continued to mourn the loss of the instrument, known for its “incredibly rich, sweet, and well-balanced tone.” Weeks turned into months; fate took an unexpected turn when Kyle Crabb unknowingly acquired the very same guitar. Upon bringing the guitar home, Crabb discovered a metal label inside the custom road case bearing the name “Red Grammer.” Trusting his instincts, he reached out to Grammer via email to inquire about the stolen guitar. In a post on Facebook, Grammer expressed his joy at the contact: “Imagine my excitement!” He shared that Crabb generously offered to return the guitar, acknowledging that while he loved it, it belonged to its rightful owner. Although Crabb felt regret over needing a guitar for himself, Red offered him his backup guitar along with some financial assistance to help ease the loss. Crabb eagerly accepted this offer. The two met in Seal Beach, California, where they exchanged instruments and Grammer had the opportunity to personally thank Crabb for reuniting him with his beloved guitar.

Scientists have recently explored the essence of human nature, leading to the conclusion that we are inherently good. This inquiry addresses a timeless question: Are humans naturally inclined to cooperate and assist others, even at a personal cost, or are we fundamentally selfish? Historically, thinkers like Augustine and Hobbes have argued that humans are born flawed and self-centered, while Rousseau posited that we are innately good and concerned for others. Recent scientific studies conducted by researchers from Harvard and Yale provide fresh insights into this debate. These studies involved a series of experiments with 2,068 participants, revealing that our instinctive response is often to cooperate rather than act selfishly. Participants who relied on their intuition—whether under time pressure or through priming—donated more to collective causes compared to those who reflected on their decisions. While these findings suggest a natural inclination toward cooperation, they raise further questions about whether this behavior is an intrinsic part of human nature or a result of social rewards. Cooperation can lead to social benefits, such as forming friendships and gaining social capital. Therefore, the researchers conducted additional studies to explore this dynamic. The overarching conclusion from these investigations is that while humans may not be strictly categorized as good or bad, our instinctive behaviors tend to favor cooperation over selfishness. This evidence does not definitively resolve the complexities of human nature but provides valuable insights into our tendencies. If human nature is defined by innate qualities, we might not fit neatly into categories of good or bad. However, if it is viewed as the sum of our automatic impulses, it appears that we are predominantly cooperative beings willing to contribute to the greater good, even at our own expense.

In a heartwarming tale from Calgary, a homeless woman made headlines when she discovered a purse containing over $10,000 in cash and chose to return it to its rightful owners, an Edmonton couple. Living in a shelter at the time, she demonstrated remarkable honesty and integrity, which resonated deeply with the couple. They were so moved by her actions that they decided to reward her with $500 as a token of appreciation for her honesty. The story didn’t end there. Inspired by her selflessness, a fund was established at a local bank to help her transition out of homelessness. Donations poured in from across Canada, showcasing the generosity and compassion of strangers who wanted to support her. The overwhelming response allowed her to secure a new apartment, marking a turning point in her life. This incident goes a long way reminding us of the goodness that can exist in humanity, even amidst challenging circumstances. The woman’s choice to return the money did change her own life as well as inspired others to contribute positively to their community. It illustrates how small acts of honesty can lead to significant change, creating ripples of kindness that can uplift those in need. Her story resonates with many who have faced adversity, showing that integrity can pave the way for new beginnings.

An extraordinary incident recently highlighted the impact of a simple phone call on human lives. Thomas Buck, an 84-year-old man from Pennsylvania, found himself in a dire situation when he reached out for help. His plea was directed to a stranger, Ashley Yasick, a 27-year-old banker residing in Delray Beach, Florida. Buck’s voicemail, filled with distress and urgency, prompted Yasick to take action that would ultimately save his life. Upon checking her messages, Yasick discovered Buck’s voicemail and quickly recognized the gravity of the situation. The elderly man had been feeling unwell and was unable to reach anyone else for assistance. Understanding the potential consequences of inaction, Yasick decided to return his call, despite the distance between them—over 1,000 miles. This decision marked the beginning of an unexpected yet crucial connection between two strangers. During their conversation, Yasick learned about Buck’s health struggles and his inability to get help. She immediately contacted emergency services on his behalf, ensuring that he received the necessary medical attention. Her swift response demonstrated her kindness and showcased the power of human compassion in times of crisis. Buck was soon attended to by local authorities who arrived at his home, thanks to Yasick’s timely intervention. Saving a life can hinge on a single act of kindness. Yasick’s willingness to respond to a voicemail from someone she had never met illustrates how interconnected we all are, regardless of distance. In a world often characterized by disconnection, this incident stands out pointing to the positive effects that empathy and prompt action can have on our communities.

A seemingly mundane day took a miraculous turn when Sarah Darling accidentally dropped her engagement ring into the donation cup of Billy Ray Harris, a homeless man in Kansas City. Instead of keeping the valuable ring after discovering it, Harris chose to return it to its rightful owner. His decision was guided by a moral compass instilled in him by his grandfather, a pastor. This act of integrity sparked a wave of goodwill that resonated far beyond that moment, inspiring people around the world to donate to Harris, who turned down an offer of $4,000 from a jeweler for the ring. The impact of this single choice was powerful. Following his appearance on television to share his story, Harris was reunited with family members he had lost touch with for over 16 years. His siblings, who had feared he might be dead, were able to find him and reconnect. This emotional reunion was highlighted during an episode of the “Today” show, where Harris expressed his shock and joy at seeing his sisters again. The donations continued to pour in, ultimately exceeding $185,000, which transformed Harris’s life dramatically. With the funds raised, Harris was able to secure stable housing and purchase a car, marking a significant departure from his previous life on the streets. He described his new living situation as “living like a king” compared to his past experiences of homelessness. The community’s support provided him with financial stability as well as restored his sense of dignity and humanity. Speaking further on this, Harris acknowledged that the true reward was not just monetary; it was the reconnection with family and the chance to rebuild his life. Today, Billy Ray Harris stands as a good example to the power of kindness and integrity. His story has become an urban legend, reminding us that one good deed can lead to unexpected blessings and change lives in unimaginable ways. Sarah Darling’s initial loss turned into a narrative of hope and redemption, illustrating how compassion can ripple through communities and inspire others to act selflessly. As Harris himself said after reuniting with his family, “This is a big payoff,” emphasizing that love and connection are invaluable treasures that far outweigh material wealth

When a woman lost her bike and had no options to explore, she humorously attached a note to the lamppost pleading for the safe return of her beloved bike, stating, “Please return my bike; it will be frightened without its owner.” This 55-year-old Brighton resident was in for a delightful surprise when the thief, moved by her kind words, returned her cherished two-wheeler. Alongside the bike, he left a note that read “big fat SORRY,” assuring her that he had never mistreated it. The note was signed “The Reformed Bike Thief.” To top it off, she also received a new lock complete with keys, adding a touch of unexpected generosity to this peculiar turn of events. It is evident here that even the stoniest of hearts could be melted with a blend of politeness and kindness.

A police officer in south Florida was faced with the prospect of arresting a single mother who was caught shoplifting groceries to feed her family. Vicki Thomas was so moved by the plight of the struggling mom of three children that she decided to buy her $100 worth of groceries. “Arresting her wasn’t going to solve the problem,” said officer Thomas, who also charged her with a misdemeanor. Since the story went public Monday, the public has also stepped up to help Jessica Robles. She was taken to Walmart to buy $500 in groceries donated from Restoration 1 of Miami and was given another $200 from Good Samaritan, Mayra Lapierre. Not only that, the owner of PhoneDoctor.com interviewed Robles on Tuesday for a customer service job and hired her on the spot. “There’s no words,” said Jessica who believes her children will never go hungry again thanks to the kindness of strangers. When we’re determined to solve all human problems with kindness, everything becomes truly beautiful.

Maria Arias and her family had been facing significant challenges, particularly after her husband lost his unemployment benefits due to federal budget cuts. This financial strain made everyday expenses increasingly difficult to manage. On New Year’s Eve, while shopping at a Walmart in Spring Lake, North Carolina, Maria attempted to purchase groceries totaling $73. She planned to use a gift card along with her debit card to cover the remaining balance, hoping to make the best of their limited resources during this tough time. As Maria approached the register, she confidently presented her payment method. However, when she tried to process the transaction, both her debit and credit cards were declined. Overwhelmed by embarrassment and frustration, she braced herself to return the groceries, feeling the weight of her family’s financial struggles pressing down on her. The thought of having to put back the items she needed for her family only added to her humiliation. In that moment of despair, an unexpected act of kindness emerged from a stranger in line behind her. A young woman stepped forward and offered to pay for Maria’s groceries by swiping her own card. With a simple yet powerful statement, “I got this,” she alleviated Maria’s distress and restored a sense of dignity in an otherwise difficult situation. This generous gesture provided immediate relief and also demonstrated the compassion that can exist among strangers. Maria’s experience serves as a poignant reminder of how small acts of kindness can have very powerful impact on those facing hardship. In a world where economic challenges can lead to feelings of isolation and shame, such moments of solidarity can uplift spirits.

A few years ago, Abbie Rutledge was driving to work in Alabama when she noticed blue lights flashing behind her. As she pulled over, anxiety surged through her, but little did she know that this traffic stop would lead to a transformative moment in her life. The Alabama state trooper, J.T. Brown, informed her that she was speeding. In a moment of vulnerability, the then-20-year-old Rutledge explained that she couldn’t afford a ticket and felt trapped in a dead-end job. Instead of issuing a citation, Trooper Brown suggested they talk about her situation. Their conversation lasted about 10 to 15 minutes, during which they discussed various career paths. Rutledge later recounted that Brown’s encouragement led them to conclude she should pursue nursing. Rather than giving her a ticket, he issued a warning with a handwritten note that read: “Promise me you’ll go to scrub or nursing school & slow down, and I won’t give you a ticket.” This simple act of kindness sparked something in Rutledge; as soon as the encounter ended, she began to push herself toward that career. Fast forward two years, and Rutledge has successfully graduated from Bevill State Community College and is now working as a surgical technician at the University of Alabama Hospital. She credits Trooper Brown for his pivotal role in her journey and even invited him to her graduation ceremony to show her gratitude. She still keeps the warning ticket as a reminder of how a brief conversation with a stranger changed her life. “Five minutes talking to anybody, even if you don’t know them, can make the largest impact of their life,” Rutledge stated, emphasizing the significance of their interaction. Trooper Brown expressed his surprise at the profound effect their conversation had on Rutledge’s life, stating he never imagined it would lead to such meaningful change. Reflecting on the experience, he said, “She made my entire career worth it.” This story highlights not only the power of empathy and support but also how one moment can alter the course of someone’s life for the better.

A heartwarming trend is capturing the attention of American social media, where mothers are anonymously leaving gifts for fellow moms within baby product aisles. This movement began when Denaesha Gonzalez, a mother from Nashville, spotted a silver clutch purse priced at $20 in the baby supplies section of Target. Recognizing that a fellow mother likely placed the purse there after sacrificing her own wants for her child’s needs, Gonzalez felt compelled to share this poignant moment. She posted a video that quickly went viral, resonating with many who understood the sacrifices mothers often make. In her viral video, Gonzalez captured a deep breath followed by the caption: “She Deserved the Purse…To the Mother who chose themselves last, you deserve the world tonight and always.” This simple yet powerful message struck a chord with viewers, amassing millions of views and sparking a nationwide initiative. Following Gonzalez’s post, Cecily Bauchmann, a popular mom influencer, was inspired to participate in this movement. She documented her own experience of purchasing a $100 gift card and leaving it hidden in a box of diapers at Target, along with an encouraging note for the next mom to find. Bauchmann dubbed this initiative the #shedeservedthepurse challenge, which has since gained significant traction online. Over 150 videos now feature mothers either hiding gifts or expressing gratitude upon discovering these thoughtful surprises. Many participants share their emotional responses, highlighting the shared experience of putting their children’s needs above their own desires. Comments from viewers reveal a collective understanding of the sacrifices made by mothers, with many expressing how this gesture of kindness has touched their hearts. Katie Beach, a stay-at-home mom inspired by this trend, decided to replicate Bauchmann’s act of kindness by leaving cash gifts in various baby product aisles. She noted that social media has shifted towards showcasing more authentic representations of motherhood, making it easier for moms to connect over shared experiences. Any time you find yourself in a trying situation, think of how to make it better for another, this is kindness by every standard.