Swandeh Terhide

At the age of 44, Rick Ruzzamenti had never even donated blood. But, after hearing about a woman who donated a kidney to help an ailing friend, he decided to see if he could donate his kidney to a stranger.His action, the enormous generosity of one altruistic man, generated a domino chain that resulted in what the National Kidney Registry call Chain 124, an unprecedented 60 operations, linking 30 kidneys from 30 donors to people who needed one. This demonstrates in no small measure, the multiplier effect of kindness. Every act of kindness, be it ever little, sets off a chain reaction of other numerous acts of kindness.

A man in Kano went to a foodseller.He had not eaten in 3 days.He begged the seller for food on credit. The foodseller said no because he already gave food to too many people on credit. The man sat down beside the foodseller’s shop as he had nowhere else to go. The foodseller told him he’s very sorry and he would like to help but too many people in the neighbourhood have collected food on credit and his business is sinking. The man sat there and said nothing. As time went on, other people came into the shop to buy foodstuff and went out- they noticed the man at the door sitting there sleeping. But nobody bothered. Until one man came later in the day and asked the foodseller: “who is the man sitting at your door?” “Why is he there?” Then the foodseller said “oh it’s a man who says he has not eaten for 3 days and he wants to collect food on credit but I could not give him because my business is struggling from all the credit I have already given out”. Then the other man said: “How much is the food he wants?” The food seller said “It’s a few cups of garri, rice and beans. Everything may be 2,000 naira”. The other man said “Alright pack everything he wants and more. I would pay for it. Let him go home to his family and eat”. The foodseller packed all the food and went outside to tell the man with joy that someone has paid for his food. He saw the man still sleeping.He tapped him to wake him up, he didn’t respond. Tapped him again, nothing. The man had died.He died sitting and waiting for help. This happened just few days ago in Badawa, Kano. Some people who live in that area know this story. The man was dead all along while people were coming in and out of the shop thinking he was sleeping. He died hopeless. He died helpless. He died a man who lacked even though the environment flourished in abundance. If you know anyone in this period who is hungry around you and you can afford a little kindness to improve their situation , please do. Many people are walking the streets with an empty stomach, many people are wrestling with the fierce stings of depression. If only you Try A Little Kindness, if only I dare to be kind, and if we all are inspired to act kindly, we would be making the world better. We would be liberating humanity from the shackles of abject poverty and hunger. There’s a role that everyone can play, there’s something anyone can do, KINDNESS. May we never have cause to delay kindness.

The Power of a Dinner Table Kathy Fletcher and David Simpson adopted what’s become known as Thursday Night Dinner after their son invited a friend, who sometimes went to school hungry, home for dinner. Word spread from that friend to another, and soon kids were showing up for what’s described as “a diverse, weekly gathering that builds trust, breaks down barriers and establishes relationships rooted in love and high expectations and aimed at building the support networks our kids need to succeed.”The community blossomed beyond the dinner table into a nonprofit organization called AOK, which stands for All Our Kids, that provides more comprehensive support to current AOK kids and many more who need it. May this story of Kathy and David, inspire us to also act kindly wherever we find ourselves.

Life is not just a journey; it’s the ultimate game we’re all playing, each of us navigating through its challenges and opportunities. Imagine it as a grand adventure, where every decision you make, every action you take, shapes the course of your experience. Here’s your strategy guide to winning this game called life. Basics of the GameFrom the moment you’re born, you’re thrust into this game with a unique character and starting point. The first few years are like tutorial missions, teaching you the basics and laying the groundwork. As you grow into a young adult, you gain more freedom but face the challenge of limited experience. This is your prime time to level up your skills quickly. Managing Your ResourcesThe most precious resource in this game isn’t money or possessions, but time. How you allocate your time determines your success. Prioritize tasks that build your skills and maintain your well-being. Your state — influenced by factors like sleep, nutrition, and mental health — directly impacts your ability to achieve your goals. Choosing Your PathLife presents you with countless choices, each influencing your journey. Focus on tasks that improve both your state and skills. Balancing these will lead to overall growth and happiness. Remember, it’s not about mastering one skill, but about developing a range of abilities that complement each other, unlocking new paths and opportunities. Navigating ChallengesThroughout the game, you’ll face obstacles — rejections, setbacks, and unexpected turns. These challenges test your resilience and determination. Stay focused on your goals, conserve your willpower, and learn from every experience. Adaptability is key to thriving in the face of adversity. The Role of EnvironmentYour surroundings play a crucial role. While you can succeed almost anywhere, choosing the right environment enhances your skills and accelerates your progress. Consider moving if your current location limits your potential for growth and happiness. Wealth and SuccessMoney becomes a factor as you progress. Manage it wisely; avoid unnecessary debt and invest in opportunities that yield long-term benefits. Whether you aim to live comfortably or achieve wealth, your financial decisions should align with your goals and values. Life’s Evolving StagesAs you enter different stages of life — marriage, parenthood, career changes — your priorities shift. Each stage brings new responsibilities and rewards. Embrace these changes and continue to pursue personal growth. Final QuestsUltimately, life is finite. We each have a limited number of days to achieve our goals and leave a meaningful legacy. Make the most of every moment. Build relationships, pursue passions, and savor the journey. When the game ends, your legacy will reflect the choices you made and the impact you had on others. ConclusionLife is not just about reaching the end; it’s about how you play the game. Every day offers opportunities for growth, connection, and joy. Choose your actions wisely, stay true to your values, and remember that the real victory lies in living a life that brings you fulfillment and leaves a positive mark on the world. So, ready player one? It’s time to embrace this adventure, make your moves count, and create a story worth sharing. The game of life awaits your strategy.