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 THE RECIPROCAL NATURE OF KINDNESS

The Starbucks on the Marshall University Campus in Huntington, West Virginia, was always like a small family with Karen Collinsworth, 65, at the head of the table. The decades-long supervisor at the famous coffee shop location loved what she did, as well as the teams of aspiring young students who made up her staff. Word spread concerning the story of an unfortunate double whammy of bad luck that befell Collinsworth when her car—a 2004 Kia that always had some kind of problem—was burglarized; the first thief taking the catalytic converter, and the second going in and stealing interior components. At this point, Gray and her teammates, who always knew Collinsworth had trouble with her car, decided that there had to be something they could do to help. Discussing what they might be able to accomplish, the team decided that they might be able to fundraise some money for repairs since so many people around campus knew the 65-year-old barista and valued her. The fundraiser amassed $40,000, headlined by a $5,000 donation from the president of Marshall University. This enabled them to quell down the idea of repairs and reconsider a better option. Collinsworth is looking at a brand-new Subarus, all the while feeling the love and goodwill those decades of serving coffee with a smile have accumulated.

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PRINCIPAL ADOPTS STUDENT WHO NEEDED A CHANCE

Kentucky School Principal Jason Smith walked out of his office one day and saw a girl from the 6th grade sitting on a chair by the door—suspended for inappropriate behaviour during lunch. One can only imagine how much delinquency and mischief Smith had seen throughout his 14 years in charge of the school, but something about the girl struck him that day. Asking whether she thought such behaviour was acceptable at a restaurant, Raven Whitaker replied she had never been to one. Where she had been was in and out of foster homes for most of her life, where foster parents had made plenty of promises they were unable to keep. “At that point, I had felt like she just needed a hand, needed help,” Smith thought to himself. “I recognized that she needed something to go in her favour, maybe for once, that it hadn’t gone in her favor in the past, but she just needed somebody to help her.” After discussing it with his wife Marybeth, she believed there was something special about Raven. The couple had struggled with infertility for years, and had previously failed to turn foster children they’d hosted into candidates for adoption. After discussing the matter with Raven’s case worker in 2015, they heard that they too could foster her. They also talked with her personally about the matter. With their doors opened, Raven wasn’t sure it was going to turn out any differently; although she admitted to the fact that the welcome was immediately and detectably warmer than past homes. However, it wasn’t long before the love and sincerity of the couple won her over, and the three became an official family in October 2017. With a principal in the house, Raven improved her performance in school, graduating and moving forward to attend the University of Kentucky.

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AGAINST ALL ODDS: GOOD SAMARITANS RESCUE DRIVER FROM FIERY WRECK

When humanity calls, may we place political ideologies on hold, suspend social status and interact as human with another human. A group of good Samaritans and highway rescue personnel united to save a 71-year-old man trapped and unconscious in a burning car on I-94 in Minnesota. The incident began when Sam Orbovich lost consciousness while driving his Honda, which subsequently drifted off the road and collided with a light pole and guardrail, igniting a fire. A multitude of good spirited individuals swiftly gravitated towards the burning vehicle with one sole aim, to get the occupant out before more worsening eventualities would creep in. Though it was a herculean and dangerous task, humanity sure prevailed. When Orbovich regained consciousness, he found that a Highway Helper had shattered the glass of his vehicle. “I am alive today because several good Samaritans and professional first responders saved my life,” he stated after the harrowing Thursday night event. He expressed admiration for the bravery of those who risked their safety to rescue a stranger from a potentially explosive situation. Orbovich’s experience is one of the many incidences which show the extraordinary willingness of individuals to help others in distress, demonstrating a deep sense of community and heroism among strangers. For kindness to be highly effective especially in moments of crises and emergencies, it is just proper that we respond kindly now and get explanations later. The actions of those who pulled this motorist from the burning car demonstrate the importance and willingness of people out there looking out for each other.

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RISING TO THE OCCASION WHEN HUMANITY CALLS

Ken Jeffries, a 57-year-old man, experienced a heart attack while waiting for his flight at Charlotte Douglas International Airport. He collapsed on the airport floor, but fortune was on his side as his flight was headed to Knoxville, where Claire Cerbie, a registered nurse from a heart and vascular hospital in Charlotte, was also traveling. Cerbie noticed Jeffries’ unusual breathing and snoring, which prompted her to check on him. Realizing he was in distress, she quickly initiated CPR with the help of bystanders while someone fetched a defibrillator. “We put the pads on him,” Cerbie recounted, “It indicated a shock-able rhythm, and it shocked him in between while we were doing compressions.” After regaining his pulse, Jeffries was rushed to Atrium Health Carolinas Medical Center, where Dr. William Downey, a cardiologist at the Sanger Heart & Vascular Institute, performed emergency surgery. Both Cerbie and Dr. Downey emphasized that without the immediate CPR and defibrillation, Jeffries likely would not have survived. In a television interview, Jeffries expressed his gratitude to Cerbie, stating, “A ‘thank you’ is not enough, Claire. Thank you for what you did; I am so appreciative and indebted to you.” Cerbie responded with humility, saying she would do it again in a heartbeat. As recognition for her heroic actions, American Airlines upgraded Cerbie to first class for her flight to Knoxville. Emergencies can occur unexpectedly, and it is only naturally proper for our compassion to come to the forefront in these moments, allowing us to make a difference and help those in need, the best way our strengths carry us.

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A DREAM REALIZED: HOW KINDNESS HELPED ONE WOMAN BECOME A MOTHER

A woman who faced only a 15 percent chance of conceiving naturally was able to give birth to a child, thanks to the generosity of strangers who donated $13,000 for her to undergo IVF. Gem Baker had always dreamed of becoming a mother, but her journey was fraught with challenges. At 38, she was diagnosed with endometriosis in 2017, greatly reducing her chances of conception. After enduring eight procedures to remove the endometriosis, she learnt from her fertility clinic that her low egg count left her with just a 15 percent chance of conceiving. Determined to pursue her dream, she began exploring in vitro fertilization (IVF) but was shocked by the high costs involved, as it goes without saying, that IVF is an expensive medical procedure. Encouraged by her friend Jen, Gem set up a fundraising page, reluctantly though. To her astonishment, donations began pouring in, showcasing the kindness of those who wanted to help her. Adding up contributions from her dad and her own savings, Gem raised a total of $13,000. In August 2021, she finally began her first round of IVF. While it wasn’t a very smooth ride for Gem, the kindness of good people around her gave her the needed strength to keep placing one foot in front of the other. Months later, Gem welcomed her daughter, Clover-Iris, into the world. Sometimes, the purest form of kindness is tendered by people we scarcely know. In a world where challenges can often feel insurmountable, the selfless acts of these benefactors brought hope and joy to Gem and her new family. May this inspire us today to act kindly where we can and make a difference in someone’s life.

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A TEACHER’S SELFLESS ACT: BUYING SHOES FOR EVERY STUDENT

When Australian teacher Bri Dredge won $20,000 on the game show Millionaire Hot Seat, she could have easily used the money for personal luxuries or to treat her family. However, Dredge’s priorities lay with her students, and she made the selfless decision to spend the entire prize on a thoughtful gift for each of them. Recognizing the importance of sturdy footwear during the winter months, Dredge chose to buy every student at her school a brand-new pair of leather shoes. This act of generosity not only provided practical support for her pupils but also conveyed a strong message of the depth of Dredge’s compassion and dedication as an educator. The children were deeply moved by their teacher’s kindness, expressing gratitude for her thoughtful gesture. Dredge’s selfless act serves as a reminder of the impact that teachers can have on the lives of their students, going above and beyond the call of duty to ensure their well-being. In a world where personal interest often takes precedence, Dredge’s story stands tall as a shining example of the power of altruism and compassion. By prioritizing the needs of her students over her own and taking into cognizance the overall well-being of her students, she has both improved their lives and also inspired others to always look beyond just self, but always put the interests of those they serve before their own. True leadership and compassion should not be measured by personal gain but by the positive change we bring to the lives of others. Through small acts of kindness and selflessness, we can create a wonderful world that transforms communities and inspire a more habitable Earth. Be inspired to TRY A LITTLE KINDNESS.

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EMPOWERED BY COMPASSION: HOW A TEACHER’S INGENIOUS PROSTHETIC HAND CHANGED A STUDENT’S LIFE

Virginia Davis, a 17-year-old student from Whitesboro, New York, faced challenges due to her hand deformity, lacking a thumb and having partial fingers on one hand. Recognizing her struggles, her technology instructor devised a remarkable solution. With ingenuity, he created a functional mechanical hand for her, costing only $30, a fraction of commercial alternatives priced up to $30,000. Davis’s gratitude towards her compassionate instructor knows no bounds, as his gesture greatly improved her daily life and tasks. His act of kindness not only demonstrates the power of innovation and resourcefulness but also highlights the importance of supportive educators who go above and beyond to help their students to overcome obstacles. Davis’ experience serves as a reminder of the impact a caring teacher can have on a student’s life, offering hope and practical solutions where there once seemed to be none. If we’re determined to be kind and firm in our resolve to help others, the noise of selfish interests will not cancel out the voice of empathy, no matter the situation.

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THE TRANSFORMATIVE POWER OF EMPATHY

Special educators are among the best, their commitment and skill unmatched. They tirelessly support students with diverse needs, making a lasting difference. Their compassion and expertise shine brightly, fostering growth and empowerment. They are indeed the finest, embodying the essence of excellence in education. Teaching means being there for students throughout their learning journey, shaping young minds requires a unique person. It’s a commitment to nurturing and guiding students to success. In Ana Bárbara Ferreira’s classroom, a little girl faced teasing for her distinct hair buns, her signature style. Upset by her classmates’ disapproval, she confided in Ferreira, her teacher. In a heartwarming display of empathy, Ferreira decided to wear the same hairstyle the next day. When the girl noticed, she was filled with joy and approached Ferreira, expressing, “Today, I’m as lovely as you are.” Ferreira was deeply touched by the positive impact of her gesture, realizing the significance of acceptance and solidarity. This simple act of mirroring the girl’s hairstyle boosted her self-esteem as well as fostered a sense of belonging and understanding in the classroom. By recognizing the student’s struggle with confidence and taking the time to connect with them on such a personal level, Ferreira was able to create a moment of understanding, support and also instill kindness into her learners. Little things truly count, if they’re done out of genuine kindness.

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PAM AND GARY WILLIS: GIVING SEVEN SIBLINGS A SECOND CHANCE AT FAMILY

Pam and Gary Willis, a couple in their 50s from California, were foster parents who had raised five children of their own. As they approached retirement, they never imagined they would end up adopting seven siblings who had lost their parents in a tragic car accident. In 2018, the Willis family saw a news story about seven siblings, aged 2 to 13, who had survived a horrific crash that claimed their parents’ lives. The children were in foster care and desperately needed a permanent home. Pam was instantly drawn to their story and knew they needed to stay together. To her surprise, when she voiced it out to her husband Gary, he was on the same page with her. Despite thousands of people calling to adopt the siblings, the Willis family stepped up to give them a forever home. Pam and Gary knew it wouldn’t be easy, as the children had suffered major injuries in the crash and faced significant trauma from their previous living situation, which included their parents’ addiction and homelessness. The kids initially struggled to trust the couple, with one, 7-year-old girl checking on them at night to make sure they were still there. Over the next few months, the children overcame obstacles and adjusted to their new lives. Finally, in August 2020, after delays due to the COVID-19 pandemic, Pam and Gary officially adopted all seven siblings. Two years later, the family’s life has been completely transformed. Pam reflects, “They have given us a second chance at parenting; we have given them a second Mom and Dad. They are our Second Chance 7.” Life has a way of throwing unexpected challenges our way, testing the limits of our strength and resilience. Whether it’s a personal setback, a global crisis, or a series of obstacles that seem to pile up, the reality is that difficulties are an inevitable part of the human existence. However, it is in these moments of adversity that our true character shines through. When faced with daunting challenges, it is our ability to remain resolute and extend kindness to ourselves and others that can make us humans that are humane.

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ACTS OF KINDNESS IN EVERYDAY LIFE

A kind FedEx driver took a few minutes out of his day to help shovel the porch and sidewalk of a mom of three who had recently lost her husband. The driver, Brian Scholl, was out delivering packages when a woman walked up to him and asked if he could help her with a tire on her car. The woman, Leigh Anne Skoda, was trying to put air in her tires following a snowstorm but was unable to get the cap off of one of her tires, so she asked for help. Brian said sure and walked over and helped her with her tire. The two talked for a few minutes, and Brian learned that Leigh Anne had recently lost her husband, and she was now raising their three children on her own. Brian’s heart was moved by her situation, so after he’d helped her with her tires and she went back inside, he walked over to the front yard and shoveled the snow off of her porch and sidewalk. Leigh Anne had already gone inside, but she later checked her front door camera and found that Brian had shoveled her sidewalk before going back to work. “The first thought that came to my mind when I saw Brian scooping my porch and sidewalks was, God bless him. He is such a genuinely kind person, and I know it was no big deal to him, but it really meant the world to me!” Leigh Anne said. Truth be told, no act of kindness is too small. Hold the door open for the person behind you. Give a wave to show your appreciation to the driver waiting for you as you cross that busy street. Smile at someone who walks past you. Even the smallest kind gesture can brighten someone’s entire day, so don’t hold back on being kind.

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