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ONE SMALL ACT OF KINDNESS SPARKS A FIRE THAT GROWS INTO A LIFETIME OF JOY AND FULFILLMENT

In the real world, falling in love isn’t usually an adventure that literally begins with a daring ocean rescue—but sometimes that’s exactly how a story unfolds. In February 2019, yoga instructor Nupur Gupta was swimming in the waters off a beach in Goa when the current got the better of her. While a strong swimmer, she feared she’d be unable to make it back to shore. Hope came in the form of Hungarian-born financial adviser Attila Bosnyak, who’d spied his soon-true-love-to-be in trouble and was swimming to her aid. Though a capable swimmer, once he reached Gupta, Bosnyak realized he wouldn’t be able to get both of them to safety on his own. Rather than towing Gupta in, he swam toward a nearby rock formation. After several attempts in which he was pounded by fierce waves and smashed against the rocks, he was able to climb up and signal to the lifeguards on shore for help. Once he saw a guard making a beeline for Gupta, a bleeding Bosnyak, who’d suffered numerous scrapes and bruises, swam back to shore and collapsed on a beach chair. A grateful Gupta, who’d quickly bounced back from her own ordeal, felt compelled to help the stranger who’d saved her life. Swiftly procuring first-aid supplies—and chocolate ice-cream as a thank you—she returned to her hero’s side. After tending to his injuries, she tendered him the ice cream. Some might blame it on the chocolate, but in that instant, Gupta’s emotional landscape underwent a sea change—and she wasn’t the only one. Bosnyak felt the “magic” surge of attraction, too. Gupta and Bosnyak were both staying at the same yoga resort; she, as a teacher and he, as a student (though not in any of her advanced classes). Over the course of the next few days, the promising relationship began taking shape. However, since the retreat was soon to end and each was scheduled to go back to their respective lives—for Bosnyak, that meant his job in the Netherlands and for Gupta, home to Kerala—it looked as if the budding romance might never get a chance to blossom. But the pair of them decided to take a chance on love. Putting their real lives on hold for another week, the couple spent Valentine’s Day together. In the coming months, thanks to social media, their bond continued to grow, albeit long distance. After a month of back and forth, Bosnyak knew he wanted to see where the relationship could go. He asked Gupta how she felt. She too wanted to move ahead. “I immediately agreed without any second thoughts, despite knowing that it’s a huge distance, different cultures, continents, countries, cities,” she confessed. “I wanted to do this. I mean, I wanted to have this experience. I loved his vibe for that time when I was around him and I was very happy.” While the sweethearts hoped to meet in person for some quality couple time, plans for a vacation had to be put on hold when it was learned Gupta’s mother required emergency surgery for a brain tumor. After Gupta explained why she had to cancel their plans, without missing a beat, Bosnyak offered to fly there to be with her. Once Gupta’s mother recovered, the pair embarked on a series of meet-ups in Dubai, Serbia, and eventually, Thailand. The sites weren’t chosen for their romantic potential but by what their travel visas would allow. In September 2019, Gupta was granted a Dutch visa. She joined Bosnyak in the Netherlands and traveled with him to meet his family in Hungary. While it took her time to adapt to both the culture and the climate, in her heart, she knew the move might prove to be a permanent one—and it did. Bosnyak and Gupta were wed on March 21, 2020, at Trouwlocatie Groenmarkt which once served as city hall to The Hague. In fact, they were the last couple to marry at the prestigious site prior to the pandemic lockdown. The newlyweds spent the next few months pretty much exclusively in one another’s company. “It’s the acid test, I think, for a relationship,” Bosnyak told CNN. “That you can live with that person for months and months and months with no events around, no places to visit, no fun activities apart from the ones you can invent inside your apartment—or during your short walks in the next one and a half, two kilometers in your neighborhood. So if you can make it, and keep on your happiness, then that relationship is rock solid.” The couple’s road to a fairytale ending hasn’t been without its bumps, with Gupta recently contracting coronavirus. But she’s now on the mend, and she and Bosnyak are currently doing what they can to help friends and family as the pandemic continues to rage in India. Next summer, Gupta and Bosnyak, along with their dog, Sukhi Ram, should be moving to Athens where Bosynak has been offered a job. If all goes according to plan, it looks as if an addition to the family might be in the cards as well. And while “happily ever after” is never guaranteed, we think that for a real-life romantic tale that started out with soggy Prince Charming and a damsel in distress, that sounds pretty darn close.

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LIFEBOAT VOLUNTEERS RUSH FROM WEDDING TO RESCUE SIX PEOPLE IN DEVON

RNLI volunteers in the UK were in the middle of a crew member’s wedding when their pagers went off, summoning them to rescue six people stranded on a beach near Ilfracombe, Devon. The lifesavers, who were lined up the aisle creating an arch for newlyweds Ashley Witcombe and his wife Cheryl, raced to the lifeboat station and launched the inshore lifeboat within just seven minutes. Wedding photographer Becky Payne, 39, captured the dramatic moment, saying, “They’d literally just got married. We went outside and just after we took a couple of pictures they had to run. It was pretty exciting.” Despite the challenging conditions, the RNLI crew successfully rescued the three adults and three children who had become stranded during a paddleboarding trip. Later that afternoon, the lifeboat crew drove past the seaside wedding venue again while on a training exercise and waved to the newlywed couple. RNLI lifeboatman Leigh Hanks acknowledged the disruption to Ashley and Cheryl’s special day, saying, “We hope the pagers didn’t disrupt Ashley and Cheryl’s special day too much, although I’m sure it’s something they’re both used to. It’s not the first time the pagers have gone off at a crew wedding, and I’m sure it won’t be the last.” There is so much to take home from here, particularly the respect for human life. It requires immense selflessness and compassion for individuals celebrating a special occasion to consider the needs of others. Their swift actions and professionalism not only gave rise to a successful rescue but also ensured a positive outcome for everyone involved.

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ADOLFO MOLINA’S SELFLESSNESS HELPED SAVE A LIFE

A Massachusetts woman experienced a medical emergency while driving on the highway, but her luck turned when Adolfo Molina came to her aid. The 25-year-old Dominican sprinted across four lanes of snow-covered traffic to intervene as her car veered dangerously close to the guardrails, continuing to accelerate on the shoulder. The dramatic rescue was captured on video by a nearby driver and quickly went viral online, showcasing Molina’s efforts to stop the vehicle by grabbing the door handles. His wife, Maytee Pena, expressed her pride, stating, “I was surprised at first, but at the end of the day I wasn’t, because he’s a helpful person. Something in his mind just said ‘go help’ so he got out of the car and did what he needed to do; it was like a sign from God.” At one point, another bystander joined Molina, and together they attempted to slow the car using sticks, pushing it toward the guardrails to prevent it from returning to the highway. Eventually, the vehicle hit a divider and came to a stop. State police later confirmed that the driver, a 57-year-old woman from New Hampshire, had lost consciousness while driving. Adolfo Molina’s courageous actions were subsequently acknowledged by the Dominican consulate in Boston. He expressed his desire to meet the driver to check on her recovery. When we see people leaving everything else to help people in need, it re-echoes the hope we all have in humanity. May all our thoughts, words and actions point to the path of kindness.

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THE POINT WHERE HONESTY AND KINDNESS MEET

Many are wowed by a Michigan woman for her honesty after she turned in nearly $15,000 in cash that she found at a gas station, which turned out to be contributions from guests for a newlywed couple who were overwhelmed by her integrity. Sixty-five-year-old Dianne Gordon has been walking 2.7 miles to and from her job behind a deli counter every day since her Jeep broke down and she couldn’t afford to fix it. On this day, while stopping at a gas station for a snack, she noticed a plastic bag on the ground; inside was a significant amount of cash along with greeting cards. Without hesitation, Gordon called the police to report her find, stating, “If it doesn’t belong to you, you don’t keep it,” and emphasizing that she did not consider keeping the money because it was not hers. Just doing what she “was taught to do” the grandmother of two called the police, who sent an officer to take custody of the sum. Gordon could have walked into any dealership in the state and driven something off the lot that day, but she knew that would be wrong in all shades because the money wasn’t hers, it wasn’t correct to take it. “If it doesn’t belong to you, you don’t keep it,” she told the Washington Post. “I didn’t do anything special. All I did was return something that didn’t belong to me.” Police Chief Dan Keller of the White Lake Township Police Department telephoned Gordon later that day to tell her they had used the information on the cards inside the bag to track down the owners. The happy couple was “overwhelmed” by Gordon’s honesty, as was Keller’s wife Stacy Connell. “As a police officer’s wife, I typically hear the bad things, so this was obviously heartwarming,” said Connell. “I was hoping we could help her get a car, since she could have walked into any dealership and used that money.” Connell set up a GoFundMe, and in just 6 days it raised four times as much money from people wanting to reward Gordon’s act of selflessness as she had found in the sealed bag that morning. Grateful for the money and the words of encouragement from all the contributors, which at the time of publishing, raised $82,000 and then closed. On February 8th, Friends of Dianne wrote: “Dianne officially signed for her new Jeep Compass yesterday at Szott M-59 in White Lake Township. Along with the new car, she also got an extended warranty, maintenance, insurance, and plates/tabs.” There was also an inspection done at her home to evaluate some much-needed repairs that will be done very soon. Kind people are mostly honest hearts, because they do to others as they themselves would want to be treated and this is about the highest point of kindness. It’s a beautiful story that shows more often than not, honesty pays.

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KNITTING BONDS: A TALE OF KINDNESS AND CREATIVITY ON A PLANE

Kelly and Jake Levine faced the typical anxieties of first-time parents as they prepared to take their five-month-old daughter, Romey, on a flight from New Jersey to Mexico. The couple was unsure how their daughter would handle the journey, especially since it was her first time flying. During the return flight, an unexpected moment unfolded. Romey became captivated by a woman sitting across the aisle, Meegan Rubin, who was crocheting. The rhythmic movement of Rubin’s hands held the baby’s attention throughout the flight. Rubin, noticing the baby’s fascination, realized that the yarn she was using matched Romey’s outfit. With only an hour left in the nearly five-hour flight, she decided to create a beanie for the baby. Once the plane landed, Rubin presented the finished hat to the Levines. Kelly Levine expressed her astonishment, stating, “Never seen someone work so fast in my life. I had no idea it was for us.” She appreciated the gesture, noting it was a wonderful way to brighten the day of a stranger and everyone around them. Rubin, who had taken up crocheting during the pandemic, explained her motivation: “I couldn’t help it. I was like, this baby is getting something because she’s too cute.” She described crocheting as a rewarding and calming activity, stating, “Creating something out of a string is so rewarding. It’s like holding the entire universe inside your hands.” Kindness, even the very simplest act can create meaningful connections between strangers. Plus, one doesn’t need a committee meeting or years of planning before expressing kindness. It should be as spontaneous as the disintegration of atomic nuclei in a radioactive substance.

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SHAQ PULLS OVER TO HELP A WOMAN AFTER HER CAR CRASHED

Shaquille O’Neal is frequently in the news, not only for his remarkable sports achievements but also for his generous spirit. Known for his charitable efforts and spontaneous acts of kindness, Shaq recently received praise from law enforcement after assisting a woman involved in a car accident in Florida. According to the Alachua County Sheriff’s Department, Shaq noticed the woman’s tire blow out while driving on I-75 and immediately pulled over. He ensured she was unharmed and stayed with her until help arrived. Dash cam footage captured his departure, where he greeted the surprised officers with a fist bump. How truly heartening it is, when we pause our supposedly tight schedules to assist another fellow. May we never be too busy or in such a rush that we decline the invitation to show kindness when such needs arise.

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NIGERIA AIR FORCE AIRLIFTS JOS STUDENTS HOME TO AVOID DANGERS ON THE ROAD   

Students from the Air Force Military School and Air Force Girls Military School in Jos were transported to their homes across various states in Nigeria using military aircraft. This unprecedented move by the Nigerian Air Force aims to ensure student safety during a time when road travel is fraught with risks. The airlift, which began on August 3, 2024, involved a total of 582 students being flown to destinations including Abuja, Enugu, Ilorin, Kaduna, Kano, Markurdi, Port Harcourt, Lagos, and Yola. This commendable action reflects the Air Force’s commitment to ensuring the well-being of its students and mitigating the dangers associated with road travel in the current security climate. In this gesture, the incorporation of kindness and thoughtfulness into their operations, stands glaringly tall for all to see. Furthermore, the Nigerian Air Force has announced plans to airlift the students back to school once the holiday period concludes, ensuring a smooth transition for their return to academic life. When we lace our policies with kindness, life becomes so beautiful.

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JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE GRANTS WISH FOR TEEN WITH CEREBRAL PALSY

When the Stitt family was fundraising to purchase a wheelchair-accessible van for their 17-year-old son, Jake, who has cerebral palsy, they likely didn’t expect a music icon to intervene. However, Justin Timberlake, upon hearing about their crowdfunding campaign, chose to make their dream a reality by covering the cost of Jake’s custom-built van and arranging for its delivery. Tim Stitt shared that Timberlake was deeply moved by their story and wanted to help. “It was just a blessing to be able to speak to that gentleman and for him to be able to meet Jake and see what he needed,” he said. Timberlake revealed the surprise to Jake during a Zoom call, and shortly before Thanksgiving, a parade celebrated the van’s arrival at the Stitt home. The family, including Jake, was overjoyed, as the van not only represents a significant gift but also the independence it provides for Jake and his caregivers in Morristown. While the Stitts had already raised a considerable amount for the van, Timberlake’s generosity allows them to allocate those funds toward Jake’s future care and expenses. Tim Stitt expressed gratitude, stating, “God’s always provided for us and we keep our faith and we’re thankful every day. It is a true meaning to thanksgiving… It’s very humbling.” When the Universe blesses us with water, it is humane that we also give to those that are thirsty. Let’s stay kind always.

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A LITTLE ENCOURAGEMENT THAT BIRTHED A GIFT CARD

Sometimes unexpected events leave us in awe, rendering us unable to express anything more than a simple thank you. Truly, we may never know the depth of impact, random acts of kindness can have on others. In a recent visit to a Dollar Tree, where a woman was shopping for inexpensive items for her classroom, specifically looking for hands-on experiences for toddlers and preschoolers. As she entered the toy section, she noticed a grown man with a couple of friends, holding a toy that made a whistling sound when twirled above his head. The man appeared hesitant to try the toy, possibly because of the woman’s presence or perhaps due to his age. Noticing his reluctance, she encouraged him to embrace his inner child, assuring him that life is too short to worry about what others might think. The gentleman took the advice, played with the toy, and smiled widely, prompting laughter from both of them. Later, the same man approached the woman and inquired if the items in her basket were for her students. The man extended his hand and offered a gift card for the Dollar Tree, stating that he wanted to help with their purchases. The woman’s face brightened in astonishment, feeling speechless and in shock, unable to articulate the emotions she was experiencing. Both she and the young man left Dollar Tree feeling invigorated, having stepped outside their usual shopping routines to engage in each other’s lives.

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CONSTRUCTION WORKER GAVE OUT HIS TRUCK TO A FATHER HE HAD NEVER SEEN

On a sweltering summer day, a family found themselves stranded on a remote Midwestern Road when their car ran out of gas. Faced with the daunting task of reaching the nearest service station, the father decided to embark on the long trek, leaving his wife and children behind in the shade of the vehicle. As he trudged along the hot asphalt, he hoisted a heavy steel gas can. Passing a nearby construction site, he noticed the workers lounging in the shade, enjoying their lunches and escaping the heat. Pricked by compassion, one of the workers called out to him and tossed his keys over, offering the man his truck. Grateful for the unexpected gesture, the father accepted the keys, knowing this act of kindness would make all the difference. A couple of hours later, the family returned to their stranded car, this time in the comfort of the worker’s truck. They filled up the gas can and thanked the construction crew for their generosity. From that day forward, every time the family passed a construction site, they felt a warm appreciation in their hearts for the kindness of strangers and it changed their overall psychological make up of what humanity entails. Each of us has what it takes to make life easy for someone else. However, if we can’t help them, let’s at least not add to their burden.

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