Years after being convicted for armed robbery, Rameil Pitamber found an unexpected mentor in the police officer who arrested him. At just 17, Pitamber was devastated by his father’s death in 2013, which led him to attempt a robbery at gunpoint. He was arrested, convicted, and sentenced to 11 years in prison.
Deputy Police Chief Brian Nugent was the officer who arrested Pitamber – but even after helping to put the youngster behind bars, Pitamber’s mother stayed in touch with the policeman so she could convince him that her son was not just another criminal.
After Pitamber was released early for good behavior, he recognized the need for mentorship to avoid repeating his past mistakes.
Fate intervened when Pitamber encountered Nugent while working at a Goodwill store. He asked Nugent to be his mentor, and their conversation blossomed into a meaningful relationship. Pitamber expressed gratitude for Nugent’s compassion and support, stating, “He never treated me as less than. With him in my corner, I can do anything.”
Their mentorship included monthly meetings focused on job searching and navigating the challenges Pitamber faced due to his background. Through Nugent’s guidance, Pitamber learned to view himself positively and embrace his identity beyond his past.
Now employed in heating and air conditioning, Pitamber is also renovating his home and pursuing education. He reflects on his journey, stating, “I want something out of life. I want to be successful and truly free.” Nugent sees the transformation in Pitamber, particularly in his confidence, and believes there is no greater reward than helping someone succeed.
Standing in full glare is the power of compassion and understanding, proving that respect and mentorship can bridge divides, correct erring souls and foster positive change. We can do our jobs effectively and still keep the bar of kindness very high just like Brian Nugent did.